For many, Christmas can be the most joyful time of the year. With the decorations, food and cheesy 80s hits, it’s hard not to be swept up in the magic and merriment the holiday season brings.
Particularly for those in retirement, Christmas is the potential sole focus of the season. Without the drag of the last 9 to 5 before the office closes, the rush in finding last minute presents or the dreaded woes of returning to work in the new year, retirees have all the time needed to engage with festivities.
However, on the other hand, Christmas for a number of retirees can also be a time of exuberated loneliness and financial stress, so much so that the festive period is dreaded rather than celebrated. Your well-being should be the uttermost priority, even at a time when the prime concern seems like it should be perfecting the Christmas turkey. Here’s how we recommend that you keep on top of your well-being during the holidays…
Coping with loneliness
Loneliness at Christmas can stem from the expectations that the season carries – whether it’s expectations of being surrounded by an ensemble of loved ones and a grand feast or partying hard as the clock strikes midnight into a new year. The reality is that for some people, Christmas is just another day on the calendar, and this can subsequently be incredibly isolating.
If you find yourself suffering from loneliness this Yuletide, there are ways you can combat it. Christmas may be known as an occasion of spreading love and joy, but it’s also an opportunity to give to those less fortunate. Volunteer work is a positive step in shifting lonely thoughts away as well as giving back to the community. With volunteering, there is a high likelihood that you’ll be working as part of a team with like-minded individuals or people in similar circumstances, giving you a chance to make new friends and make a positive impact as a group. For more information on where to volunteer, enquire with your local community hub to find your nearest soup kitchen or animal shelter.
Alternatively, various charities offer support for individuals facing loneliness, especially during the festive season. Causes such as AgeUK offer different avenues of help and resources for those battling loneliness, including a helpline open every day of the year, including Christmas Day. You can also partake in events hosted by charities including the annual Salvation Amy Christmas Carol Night or The Christmas Dinner hosted by the Gold & Stone Foundation.
Handling financial stress
During your retirement, your main source of income is likely to be your pension, and unfortunately, it isn’t endless. Your pension is something you have worked nearly all your life for, but if used unwisely in the midst of holiday cheer, you could potentially jeopardise the rest of your retirement. Last year, My Pension Expert’s research revealed that a third of those over 40 were concerned about Christmas spending post-retirement. In a time of heightened financial stress, spending beyond your means can lead to credit card and loan territory, which should be avoided in the midst of rising interest rates.
To prepare for the festive (and albeit expensive) season, set a budget to abide by. Don’t restrict yourself too much but be realistic, if there’s ever time to treat yourself and your loved ones, it’s Christmas! There are seasonally savvy ways that you can stay loyal to your budget; from handmaking gifts as an alternate to buying brand new, to comparing prices at your local supermarkets.
For uncertainty relating to your pension, financial advice is also extremely valuable in calming down unnecessary heightened stress during the holidays. To find out more, request a call with a member of our team here.
If your financial stress revolves around debt, charities including StepChange offer free, expert debt advice alongside card repayment and benefit calculators. The reoccurring cost of living crisis has opened up more resources for those struggling financially, so don’t suffer in silence!
Make it your own
Whether it’s a quiet one on your own or a year where you have to tighten your financial belt, Christmas is what you make it. Avoid unrealistic expectations set by the media and make this festive season a celebration suited to you and your circumstances. Focus on the things that truly matter—quality time with loved ones, meaningful traditions, or simply enjoying the little moments of peace and joy. Whether it’s a homemade gift, a cosy movie marathon, or a simple meal shared with family or friends, Christmas can be just as special without the pressure to meet extravagant ideals. The heart of the holiday is found in connection, love, and gratitude, not in spending or perfection.